Lube is one of the simplest ways to make intimacy more comfortable, solo or shared. There is no single best one: the right choice depends on what feels good to you, what you pair it with, and how much cleanup you want afterwards. This guide walks through the main types so you can choose at your own pace.
Start with three questions
- Will you use it with condoms? Water-based and silicone lubes work with latex condoms. Oil-based products can weaken latex, so skip them with latex condoms.
- Will you use it with a toy? Water-based lube suits every toy material. Silicone lube can wear down some silicone toys, so check the toy's instructions first.
- How long do you want it to last? Water-based lube can dry and need a top-up. Silicone lasts longer and holds up in water.
The main types, side by side
| Type | Feels like | Good for | Keep in mind |
|---|---|---|---|
| Water-based | Light, natural, easy to wash off | Everyday use, all toys, all condoms | May need reapplying |
| Silicone | Silky, long-lasting | Longer sessions, the shower or bath | Not for some silicone toys; washes off with soap |
| Hybrid | Creamy, between the two | A longer glide that still washes off easily | Check the label for toy compatibility |
| Oil-based | Rich, slow to dry | Massage and external use | Not with latex condoms |
Water-based: the easy starting point
If you are not sure where to begin, start here. Water-based lube feels close to natural moisture, cleans up with water, and works with every toy and condom. Some formulas are thin and slippery; others are thicker gels that stay put. Browse water-based lubes.
Silicone: for staying power
A little silicone lube goes a long way, and it does not dry out or wash away in water. That makes it a favourite for longer moments and for the shower. Use it with latex condoms if you like, but keep it away from silicone toys unless the toy's maker says it's fine. Browse silicone lubes.
Hybrid: a bit of both
Hybrids blend water and a small amount of silicone for a creamy glide that lasts longer than water alone but still rinses away. They are worth a try if water-based feels too thin and silicone feels too slick. Browse hybrid lubes.
Flavoured, warming and anal formulas
Flavoured lubes are made for oral play. Warming and tingling lubes add sensation, which some people love and others find too much, so try a small amount on your wrist first. Lubes sold for anal play are usually thicker and longer-lasting, because the body does not make its own lubrication there. Flavoured, warming and anal lubes are all in the range.
How much to use
Start with a small amount and add more whenever you want to. Using too much is harmless, just a little messier. Reapply water-based lube as it dries.
Want to go deeper?
For a detailed comparison of the two most popular types, read Silicone vs. water-based lube. When you're ready, the full lubricants collection has options for every preference and budget.